Thursday, November 24, 2011

Blessings

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. 
I have sweet memories from childhood of helping my mom set the table with the nice china and watching her put together the massive amounts of food that 10-20, sometimes 25 people would consume.  After dinner, everyone would say what they are thankful for.  All the typical things were said, but it always gave me the warm fuzzies to hear it said out loud.
It's the one holiday that has stayed most true to itself.  It hasn't been taken over by Santa and gifts, or bunnies and chocolate.  It's a day to zero in on what you do have, not what you don't. 
Count your blessings.  Cook and eat.  Sleep and watch football.
What's not to love.
Happy Thanksgiving!

Friday, November 18, 2011

Cute vases

Saw this idea on Pinterest, of course, and thought I'd try it out. 
I used 2 wine bottles and a beer bottle that I'd saved from the past few weeks.

This was super easy and really super cheap if you happen to drink wine or beer anyway.  Even if you're not a regular drinker of the alcohols like we are, I'm sure you know someone who could save you a few! :)
I had yarn laying around from my occasional attempts at knitting so just used some of that. Also used a little bit of hot glue here and there while I was wrapping them.

You'll need to glue it at the top when you're getting started and when you're wrapping down and around the curve in the bottle.  That keeps it from creeping up.  Also a little glue at the bottom to keep it from slipping off and you're all set!


It probably took me about 10-15 minutes to do all three. 
I think they are lovely with or without flowers. 
I'm thinking even Christmas gifts??
So thanks again, Pinterest!

Wise old person

The older I get the more I realize this strange life is a series of circumstances, experiences, and epic failures meant to shape and mold us into something resembling a wise, educated old person.
I know these types and I want to be them some day.  My grandparents, for example.  Lots of wisdom rattling around in their heads. 
Seriously, though, I find it shocking at times what experiences shape us.  It's not always what we expect.  Some of the most defining moments of growth have often been in the silent hours of night with sleepless babies, in the moments of torment throughout the day as I wrestle with the hows and whys of any number of things.   The microscopic changes in how I think, or speak, or cope seem to occur in the unnoticed processing of my choices and experiences.   It's rarely been in a single defining moment.  Time, thoughts, prayers, experiences, conversations.  Every single one of them are valuable when we are conscience of them.
I'm sure you've heard someone say about a young person who has passed away that they were so "full of life."  I find that so ironic.  My 91 year old grandma is full of life.  She doesn't get out much anymore, she struggles with various ailments (although in quite good health for being 91 and a diabetic most of her life), but she is FULL OF LIFE.  I understand what is meant when that's said about a child, but it seems so backwards. 
So, I honestly have no idea where all this mumbo jumbo is coming from today.  I just keep thinking I want to truly have a "full life" and that means a huge range of experiences, emotions, and struggles. 
I want to be that wrinkly, wise, educated, old lady someday. 

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Project

I must confess...I've been coveting the coffee sacks that have been sitting the back room at the coffee shop. 
I love them. They are so rustic and authentic and coffee-y.
So my fav boss, Joan, said yesterday that she had put 2 back for me.  YIPPEE!
I would imagine that if you had a desire for coffee sack, a local roaster or coffee shop would sell you a few.  Not sure how much they would run you, but probably not much!
So, I had a few things in mind for them so as soon as we got done schooling yesterday I set to work.
First order of business, nail one to the wall. Very difficult, I know.  I couldn't decide which way to put it up and I think I may change my mind.
Side 1.


 
Side 2.  Crummy picture.  I think I like the other side better...
I wanted to use the other sack for curtains in my kitchen. I picked this sack cause I super liked the stripe through it

So after some measuring of windows and the sack, I decided that I would pull the seams out of the sides and make a new seam along the width to put the curtain rod through.  Worked out beautifully, although got a little messy with the fibers getting all over. 
I used the twine that I pulled from the sides to make my seam across the width. 
Instead of stitching all the way across, I figured I could just put a few stitches every 5-6 inches and that would be sufficient.  I like taking short cuts!
So that's what I did.  I made the seam about 2 inches wide, which was pretty snug putting my rod in.  I would make it 3+ inches wide if I did it again.
And the finished product...


Oh, coffee love!!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

A New Chapter

It seems my life has had very distinct chapters.  Each change has brought a new set of experiences, friendships, occupations, and outlooks. 
From the moment I met Chad I knew I'd be a football wife.  Our life together didn't start out that way, but we both figured it would lead to that. 
He has a passion for football.  He loves the intricacy of it, the opportunities for growth it provides both physically and mentally, the competition. 
So, it's sad to say that he's done with coaching for now.  I say for now, because so little in life is predictable. 
He struggles when he feels like he's not able to give his all to something.  We're going on 5 years of that situation.  He's been constantly divided with his job at the Y and coaching football.  The Y is what has paid our bills and with CrossFit has now become something he really enjoys.  Football has always been what he loves to do, so we have stretched time and resources to the max to do both. 
He's taking one for the team, our team.  The kids and I. 
I will miss it terribly.  There is something magical about being so personally invested in a team.  You're more then a fan when you're a coach's family.  The players become more valuable to you.  You don't just want them to play well, you want them to make good decisions, mature and grow under your instruction on and off the field, and feel good about being apart of a team.  That takes alot of investment in time that Chad has not had to spare. 
So, I don't know what this new chapter holds.  I'm not sure what life will look like next August when we're not spending our afternoons and Saturdays at the field.  I don't what what I'll do when I have a husband around on the weekends. 
I'm excited to find out...and a little nervous.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Competitive Humility

Or Humble Competitiveness?
Pre-CrossFit classes I did not think I had a problem with this issue. 
Apparently, I do.
I enjoy competition, always have.  It's fun to compete, it's more fun to win. 
And that's where I have a problem.  I like winning and it makes me crazy if I lose when I know I should have won.  I think it's gotten worse as I've gotten older.
These CrossFit classes are a whole other beast. 
Competition is an outward condition by most standards.  You vs. ?? 
But, You vs. You? 
Schizophrenic, anyone?
It's true.
I have to continually tell myself I'm competing against myself when all I want to do is get the best time or at least beat the people I feel like I should beat. 
It's not about anyone else but me.  It's about beating what I think I can do and being ok if today's not the day that that happens.
It's so very superficial and self-absorbed!  I know this.  And in this case, I'm not sure it's a bad thing.  I can't control how other people perform, or if they are knocking out a PR today.  I can only do my best.  It's what I tell my kids all the time.  Maybe it's time to take my own advice.  Easier said then done some days. 
Humility in competition.  Win or lose.  Best time or worst time.  PR or no PR.
CF brings out the strangest things.  It's like a self-help program wrapped up in a fitness class, wrapped up in a college level weightlifting class, wrapped up in awesomeness.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

25

11/12/11-Luke would be 25. 
What would he be doing?  He was a creator, thinker, doer.  He and his best friend had a lawn care business as kids.  He was always trying to come up with the next great idea.  My mom was sure he would be a millionaire.  Few doubted that.
It's when I think of those things that I think it's truly unfair that he was taken so young.  He had plans, things to do, girls to have swoon over him, mountains to move.  He had the faith to move them.
What's so shocking at times, is that he will never age in my mind.  He will always be 14, 15, 16.  Not 17, 18, or 25.  I can only speculate who he would have been.
Life is unpredictable that way.  I had no idea or plans to be having my 3rd baby at 25 when I was 16, but that's what 25 held for me.  Luke at 15 had no idea that 16 would be it for him. 
It's easy to be sad on days like today.  My desire is to celebrate today.  To remember him healthy and vibrant and ambitious and funny.  To consume root bear and gummi bears til I'm nauseous and tell stories about him to my kids. 
Happy Birthday, Luke the Duke!

Friday, November 11, 2011

For your freedom...

It's hard to imagine the individual sacrifices of millions, but if you have the opportunity to hear just one story from one veteran today consider yourself fortunate.  It means that vet survived and is alive to tell you their story.
I am honored to be from a family with a history of military service.
Both of my grandfathers served.  2 of my brothers have at one time been in. My younger brother, Isaac, is currently on deployment.  My husband served for 4 1/2 years of which I am eternally grateful to have been given the window into that life.  It is so hard to describe or imagine unless you have done it.  Both of Chad's brothers still serve as Navy Chaplains.  His dad was in the Air Force.  I know there are many more in our extended family. 
I had to say goodbye many times over 4+ years.  Once when I had a 19 month old and a 10 day old baby.  Chad wasn't going to a war zone, so I didn't fear for his life, but thousands and millions over the years have had to endure, knowing their spouse was in daily danger.
I stand in awe of those who not only sacrificed while they were in the military, but are able to carry the memories of war with them for a lifetime.
I'll never forget my Grandma Dahlke telling me about the weeks after London was bombed during WWII when she didn't know if my grandpa was alive.  Last she had heard, he was in London.  3 weeks she waited for that news.  3 weeks!!
Can you even imagine that? 
My grandpa was not one to talk alot about his memories or experiences.  Thankfully, my grandma was.  I would imagine my grandpa saw things he just didn't want to share. 
War is ugly.
I think there are many Americans that don't want to truly understand war.  We don't want our day to day lives disrupted, but we don't really want to know how that is maintained. 
I'm also a firm believer that war creates a magnitude of destruction and chaos that should be avoided, if at all possible.    
There is one thing I know for certain and why Veterans Day is so very important...and that is sacrifice is sacrifice, whether that is time, resources, skills, a limb, or a life.  Each and every veteran and those serving now sacrifice something so that my day to day is not disturbed with gun fire and bombs, persecution or dictatorship.  I can raise my children in a safe community, go to the church I choose, shop at the stores I want, in essence, choose. 
I get to choose.  Millions around the world are not given that freedom.
So thank a veteran and their families today for not only sacrificing for your freedom, but for the freedoms of those across the world as well.

Monday, November 7, 2011

He just keeps goin'...with a smile.

Or more of a smirk, really.
If you haven't met my husband or had the privilege to get to know him, I hope you get the chance some day.
I'm gonna brag about him for a bit so if that sort of thing doesn't float your boat, you can skip today's post.
He has always been passionate about fitness and health and over the years it has been impossible for me to not absorb some of his enthusiasm, despite my best efforts! 
His education and career choices have centered around fitness.  His choices in his personal life reflect what he teaches.  He walks the walk.
He loves all things fitness and health and wants others to love it too.
Enter CrossFit.  I've talked about it before, but check it out, if you haven't yet.  http://www.crossfit.com/
We started doing CF workouts with a few friends almost 2 years ago.  As soon as he started, he knew this was for him.  It is the perfect combo of strength, skill and variety.
I, on the other hand, whined and complained my way through workouts for a long time. Over time, though it changed my mind, as much, if not more then it changed my body.  In a society that is obsessed with appearance, CF opens a window into what being healthy and fit looks and feels like. 
So, after about a year of doing workouts, he knew this was something he wanted to share on a broader scale.  After pitching it to the Y, becoming certified, and training several clients under its philosophy, it's a go. 
Throughout this process, he has sacrificed the entirety of any personal time he may have had to continue doing his jobs, while getting ready to launch CrossFit McPherson Y!
While keeping up his duties at the Y, he did demolition in the basement of the Y, offensive coordinated at McPherson College, planned weekly workouts for nearly 100 football players, has taught CPR at the college for the past few weeks, and served on a board at our church.
He is calm, efficient, and organized, which is the only way we would have survived the past few months. 
I am in awe of how well he handles stress without complaint, maintains relationships with his family, and just gets it all done and done well.  He has yet to crack, (except for a little mishap this morning that required a few stitches :)
He just keeps going with a smile.  He makes me want to be a better person.  Makes me feel like I can take on anything.  Makes me want to take a nap sometimes (one of us has to!)
So, yeah, I'm proud of him.  Super duper proud.



Friday, November 4, 2011

He strikes again

I think we should be part of a reality show.  I am sure my days are more interesting then the Kardashians or any "real" housewives of any county or even the Osbournes, although we don't have accents so that is a strike against us, I suppose.
Mostly I just want someone to document Caleb so I can show him what a piece of work he was as a toddler.  I'm sure I won't remember everything(Thank Goodness!) so it would be nice to have videos archived for another time.

In our latest saga, he has gotten increasingly contradictory over the past few weeks.  Regardless of what you say, his response is to the negative.  Here is how the majority of our conversations go...
Me: "We're going to read a book." 
Caleb: "No, we're not." (as he reaches for a book).
Me: "I'm going to make lunch."
Caleb: "No, you're not." (as he heads toward the kitchen).
Me: "The sky is blue."
Caleb: "No, it's not."
Me: "I love you."
Caleb: "No, you don't."

As you can imagine, this is entirely pleasant and makes for joyous hours of interesting dialogue that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
Now, think for a moment if this is your day to day (of which, despite my ranting, I truly do love), then as you're getting ready to head to the Y to workout, your eldest son tells you, as you're coming downstairs, to go look in the bathroom and this is what you find...

That is Comet. And my camera does not do it justice. It's on the walls, the mirror, caked on sink and toilet, sprinkled into the mudroom and on a bench.  Basically, everywhere.
He emptied the can.  Looks like he had fun doing it based on how high it was on the walls.
Upside?  It's lavender scented so that's suppose to be soothing, right?

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Food


I cannot for the life of me get this kid...

to eat anything except pb&j and cheese quesadillas.
I think he, in fact, as a little bit of peanut butter on his face in this picture.
Here's what he eats on a regular basis: scrambled eggs, pb&j, grilled cheese, cheese quesadillas, cheese pizza, and pretty much any fruit.
 
That's about it.  No soups, casseroles, crockpot concoctions... nothing. 
He'll randomly say he likes green beans or broccoli, but that's hit or miss and it can't be mixed with anything.
It mostly annoys me and rarely deters me from trying to get him to eat whatever it is I cook. 
I refuse to make a meal for 6 people based solely on the likes and dislikes of one person. 
So, I just keep hoping one of these days he's try something new and say, "hey, that's pretty good," and we can add to the list of things he'll eat. 
Until then, I'll keep making food he probably won't eat.  Cheers.